Choosing A Heart Centered Life in Our Relationships

True Heart Connection, Within Our Self

When we have made the commitment to align with heart based actions and intentions, these began to feel really good…in our hearts.

The quality of energy and self love has it’s own particular nature and character. It can be exquisite to experience our own love emanating from our heart, for us. For me, this is the Soul connection. This is Soul and me, living and loving together, in this physical body, through my heart connection with the Soul that I am.

I have been working on this process for so many years now, that I have gotten to the point that actively choosing against what my centered heart tells me causes me pain – the pain of separating from my own inner Source of my own love.

Ultimately, I view this heart connection as being the same thing as our own Soul connection. Aligning with heart, is the same activity for me as aligning with my Soul’s path for me.

When we consciously and with love, decline to allow magnetic interactions, when we thoughtfully and with awareness, choose from that heart centered place within, we are changing the nature of our relationships. And we are changing the very nature of our own relationship with ourself.

Making a Choice to Align, Within

When we are willing to yield the repeating addictive arguments or the addictive repetitive behaviors in relationships in this manner, we are not “giving up” or “giving in”. We are making a choice to not do a magnetizing behavior, because in the end it doesn’t give us the heart centered life we are looking for and desire to create.

We are making a choice to support our inner heart connection. We are renewing and reaffirming our primary relationship is with our own self.

What we are also doing is removing ourselves from polarity, from the dualism of “I win, you loose”, from the cycles of anger generating fear, and fear generated from anger, from the polarized position of ‘I need you’ instead of ‘I have all I need, within me’, from ‘fill me up’ instead of knowing we fulfill ourselves.

And, you know what? …. what I’ve found is that approach is challenging at first.  But keeping my stance firmly on the ground of the heart, frees up incredible energy!  And then…. I notice that I feel happier.

I have experienced miracles in relationships from the willingness to stay devoted to a heart centered process – one that begins and ends within myself. This approach leaves blame of others and criticism of others crumbled to dust at our feet while we stand in heart centered alignment and in our personal sovereignty.

Making the Inner Commitment to Lead a Heart Centered Life

What about those who choose activities and intentions that lead them to unhappiness, day after day? Now I forget at times, that this is what my life was actually like, every day.

We can love these people in our lives with whom we are in relationship from afar, or we can interact if we can stay heart centered in the interaction. This is what I have experienced so far. Sometimes these relationships change and sometimes they do not. It really depends on what the other person also wants for their life. They have their own Soul path, and their own inner compass.

Footnotes:

(1) This article is reprinted from my website InspiredStrategies.com originally published July 17, 2015. This is now my learning website – come on over and check out courses on expanding consciousness, ascension, spirituality, quantum physics, sacred geometry, your galactic self, and more.